Hang in there...fight like heck...be aggressive and don't let it beat you down. One of my best friends engaged six months ago (diagnosed at Baylor with stage four prostrate, spread to the bladder, liver, and bone) in an aggressive regimine at MD Anderson. On his way home to Dallas today he called to tell me that CT showed the bladder and liver are clear, and the chemo/rad is done. It's been unbelievably hard, but he's beat it. With a little attitude, a lot of prayer, and an aggressive treatment program, there's always a better-than-good chance you can, too.