Nope, she wasn't hacked. That's how we roll. I've been married before (disastrously) and I learned a few things. So dating my wife sounds silly but it's just how I feel about her. If you miss a chance to hug her or tell her you love her, when are you going to get it back?
Think about this. I just went to the funeral of a 37 year old firefighter. He didn't die in a fire or going to a scene. He caught the flu and never recovered. His fiancee is devastated but she knows he loved her. Life is full of unknowns. Don't let your love for your spouse be one of those unknowns.